tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039321608208914582.post3387645175571722734..comments2023-10-15T08:19:28.285-07:00Comments on Am I a Frum Feminist?: Sexist ShidduchimAmIaFrumFeministhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09336007889420058137noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039321608208914582.post-61362364031078392462010-06-02T19:07:28.281-07:002010-06-02T19:07:28.281-07:00Girls aren't SUPPOSED to run after them. It...Girls aren't SUPPOSED to run after them. It's the job of the man to pursue the woman. It's not even considered tznius for a woman to pursue a man.AmIaFrumFeministhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09336007889420058137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039321608208914582.post-44772169067050949062010-03-25T19:54:15.594-07:002010-03-25T19:54:15.594-07:00Lots of Orthodox Jewish men can go for months, or ...Lots of Orthodox Jewish men can go for months, or even years, without dating.<br /><br />Girls are <b>NOT</b> running after them. These men include: <i>baalei teshuvah, gerim, Sephardim</i>, divorced men, short men, poor and bald men, older men, etc.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039321608208914582.post-60317341755454439802008-09-14T18:51:00.000-07:002008-09-14T18:51:00.000-07:00since for our purposes the point of dating is to c...since for our purposes the point of dating is to create a relationship and than marriage, most people in community are way too young and immature. <BR/><BR/>I'm not completely sure who it is that you're dating, are u dating guys straight out of yeshiva or ones who have worked for a while? also another thing is that dating is the first social interaction that many frum guys have with females (of course that also depends on the community), so such a situation does take a certain amount of adjusting to. this is especially true in cases where such interactions and relationships were vehemently discouraged up until relatively recently in the guys life. anyhow my point is that dating in the frum community attempts to create a completely unnatural relationship in a setting that often neither party is properly prepared for, thus all sorts of issues arise. <BR/><BR/>like with most things theres the party line in which people claim certain things, and then there is what actually happens. in the frum community of course kavod habriyos is stressed, but heck that sure doesn't mean that people will keep to it if they can get away with it. <BR/><BR/>and in terms of having respect for women....im still kinda surprised that your a conservative republican.<BR/><BR/>-rembAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039321608208914582.post-42995561995660852742008-09-09T20:31:00.000-07:002008-09-09T20:31:00.000-07:00Too young to be dating or too young to be in a rel...Too young to be dating or too young to be in a relationship? <BR/><BR/>In any case, it's not just the guys who have this attitude. It's the whole community, which means that it's a community problem. Don't you think that if the community had more respect for women that these guys would as well?AmIaFrumFeministhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09336007889420058137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039321608208914582.post-78541513622832453702008-08-26T20:45:00.000-07:002008-08-26T20:45:00.000-07:00considering that the guys you are refering to are ...considering that the guys you are refering to are most likely between the ages of 21 and 25 no kidding they're treating you this way, they're still babies. guys in the frum community are too young and immature to be dating.<BR/><BR/>-rembAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com